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I decided to go the meet women online route because I was simply tired of the traditional lame approach to dating women. I’m now the proud owner of my very own beautiful, intelligent Russian bride, named Victoria (Vika in Russian). We met online of course. And even though I made some mistakes in the beginning I knew that in the end the approach I used would inevitably succeed.
There’s absolutely no way I could have met let alone won over this beautiful of a woman using the traditional approach to dating. I didn’t have the time, money, looks, ego nor the desire to 
approach women traditionally the way I approached them on the internet.
Add up all the pro’s to meeting women online and you’ll wonder why you’re not with the woman of your dreams right now. But let me give a lot of you some real hope right now…
“If you’ve struggled meeting an attractive woman or any kind of woman for that matter, you are about to find some encouragement here from someone who naively got into meeting women online got taken advantage of a time or two but came out the other side with a woman that turns heads everywhere we go.
I will unashamedly admit that comparatively speaking I’m not the most attractive guy in the room. And chances are neither are you. But if present yourself in as good a light as possible without stretching the truth you’ll come out way ahead. That’s where meeting a woman online has huge advantages. You can present yourself in the best light possible without sacrificing much time, money, or ego.
Think about it…
When you meet women online you have a better opportunity to:
1. Show the best image of yourself
Even if you have a face that only your mother can appreciate — a quality photo can work miracles. You don’t have to be handsome with chiseled features. It can help of course. But an image of you neatly dressed, smiling and holding a cute puppy or loved one will cover a multitude of sin. Out of all the photos I sent my wife just after I met her online, the one of me holding my 2 year old niece in the back yard made the connection (the other photo that highlighted my manly physique paled in comparison).
2. Prepare a Profile with her in mind
I don’t need to insult your intelligence by detailing this. But if you simply take time to write a profile that an attractive woman might respond to you’re going to get responses. You don’t need to make up stuff obviously. But if you can present yourself as you really are in a fun, friendly, or even humorous way without getting the ego involved. You’re going to meet women online who will be interested in knowing more.
My Russian bride is so hot most of my male friends can’t seem to figure out how I pulled it off. The key is that I made my first letter i.e. profile to get her attention via. the online dating site extremely honest. While every other 50+ year old baby boomer was touting their wealth, interests, and irresistible virtues via. a letter they stamped and blasted out, I tailored mine to the each woman I wrote.
I made my presentation memorable by asking about them and their home town and what I liked about it. I asked about details in their profile, what interested them and their family…and even their pet.
Is that ridiculous or what? But hold on…
“Only near the very end of my letter did I mention myself…and believe it or not I would say something that begged a follow up question. For example I mentioned that one of my struggles is “double stuff” Oreo cookies. I knew Russians at the time had no clue what an Oreo cookie was.
I know, this is kind of lame to be honest…
But later I found out that she responded to my letter (out of a hundred others) because it was “interesting, lengthy and funny”, and surprisingly she needed an answer to, “What is this American Oreo cookie?”. It was all just plain different than the others.
After I Fed Ex’d her a package of Oreos (half her neighborhood all came over to devour it) I had made a lasting connection.
“You got lucky”, I hear you say…
Yes, I did. I am lucky and I’ll be the first to admit it. But I sent out about 50 letters like this over the course of 3-4 months. All of them to beautiful women of course with profiles I felt good about. I leveraged the law of averages really. If you work a little you’ll get lucky too. 
“By the time we met 6 months later in Kiev, my letters had won her over (and more than made up for my unsightly appearance.) That’s how I knew I’d eventually find the woman who is now my wife.
If I were do do it all over again, I’d sign up for free (via. these links) at Chemistry.com or Anastasia and do pretty much the same. Feel free to comment below sharing any experiences or insight you might have with meeting women online.
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